He's Just Not That Into You

Lately, this movie "He's Just Not That Into You"was showing in the major cinemas. Unfortunately, I dun hav extra time for this movie YET..and also because..I couldnt get one to watch with me..Sigh...

But... I read this book 2 yrs ago...

Same title
& written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
a book that givin some hints ...
hint about wther he is really into you or he is jus foolin around v u.
I believed, most of us alw get heartache in our relationship but somehow we still hold the faith on it..

Trial & Error

Checklist by Greg Behrendt :
1. He's just not that into you if he's not askin u out
2. He's just not that into you if he's not callin u
3. He's just not that into you if he's not dating u
4. He's just not that into you if he's not havin sex v u
5. He's just not that into you if he's havin sex v someone else
6. He's just not that into you if he only wants to see u when he's drunk
7. He's just not that into you if he doesnt want to marry u
8. He's just not that into you if he's breaking up v u
9. He's just not that into you if he's disappeared on u
10. He's just not that into you if he's married (& other insane variations of being unavailable)
11. He's just not that into you if he's selfish, jerk, a bully or a Really Big Freak
So, pls check on it. See whether ur partner is behaving this. if yes, most probably the relationship won last and ending sooner or later.

Additional checklist by WKH :
12. from no.4..if he's not responsible on u after sleep v u, then tis man is called JERK. BUGGER.
13. from no.5.. if he is sleepin v someone else and then come back to u and pretend he is so much in lov v u, then he is jus takin adv from u and he is definitely 'eating' u

Sometimes if you found out he had cheated on u , will u stil beliv on him , althought the cheat might be a "white lie"... but, i guess, it will be difficult for us to trust someone who cheated and or betrayed u for another second time.

So... we shouldnt waste our time on someone who don love you at all, who doesnt deserve for your love.... while u r being so stupid to keep on savin ur screwed relationship, u will be missing some good choice at the same time.

mayb we should stil hold our faith
mayb we should stil bliv into those fairy tale love story
or even mayb we should stil being stupid sometimes

Bcos love is so..irresistable...

Questions that Puzzled Me

Things that puzzled me... :

1.Read an article about Unplugging a CO2 Source. Here is the detail....
What if all cell phones were compatible with all phone charges?It would certainly fix one of life's little irritations-when ur charger is lost or left behind.It would also cut the number made each yr by half and eliminate 13.6M metric tons of greenhouse gas emissions annually from the manufacture and transportation of the ubiquitous plastic plugs.This standardized chargers will also use 50% less energy.

??????

WTf??? Howe come human is so bloody smart nowaday?? Isit work and really reduce the greenhouse effect and save our mother earth?? How r they goin to make THE ONE charger and it means.. OUR current HP need to be abandoned and buy a new standardized cell phone le.
And I think it is really amazing la. cos i no longer need to bring along my charger when i am travellin or even workin..PINJAM saje la.. dammit!! I am countdown-ing it NOW!
P/s : can the remotes standardize too?? for the TV, DVD player and cable box??

2.Another article about this MAN, Barry Minkow who spent more than 7 yrs in prison for fraud related to his biz and now he is senior pastor of community bible church and runs the for-profit Fraud Discovery Inst. And even spoke for CNBC,CNN and Fox!!!

?@#$%^^7!!????@N^%>>??? ALAMAK.

I am like tis..... ++ / T T / == / @@ /
How come a person who did all the bad things stil deserved for a respect and admire from others?Or wats wrong v those ppl who made him becum so incredible FAMOUS.. ??HUman r really strange and weird... Can anyone pls explain this to me?
Shouldnt he be blamed not be admired?
And one more thing is... How come a person who work so hard and in accordance v the rules, ethics, discipline is stil achiev NOTHIN in her life BUT only the hardship..Not even gettin more $$ and being admired by people. The world is really UNFAIR!!! And I hav NO IDEA abt it also.

3.Today I feel so sad and sorry for one of my girlfren. I knew her for such a long period and she is one of my close fren when I am a teenager.Her boyfren cheated on her for 4 mths, fuckin around v other girls and back to her and pretendin he is so much in lov to her.She had toned down alot for him but at the end the return is a heartache that will leave her a bad experience and a thorn inside her heart.

A relationship is easy to build but difficult to maintain. Love is blind.When u r in love v someone, you r being so stupid, un-rational and weak. Its alw alright to hav hopes in our life but wat does it matter to me is.. Should v protect ourselve from being hurt or we should jus hold our faith on it once agin. If you protect urself too much then loving someone will be hard and it is not a true love. Such a dilemma.

Love and relationship is alw a lesson to be learned along our life path.

And this is wat v named it -LIFE-.


P/S : Happy Birthday to Yen Ping aka Nell Nell.
And Hope you will get well soon after some time, My dear.

Life & Chocolate

" Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get." By Mrs Gump, Forest Gump (1994).

Classification of chocolate :
1. Unsweetened chocolate is pure chocolate liquor.
2. Dark chocolate is produced by adding fat and sugar to cacao and without milk. Sometimes called "plain chocolate".
3. Milk chocolate is chocolate with milk powder or condensed milk added.
4. Semisweet chocolate is a dark chocolate with a low (typically half) sugar content.
5. Bittersweet chocolate is chocolate liquor which some sugar more cocoa butter, vanilla and sometimes lecithin has been added.
6. Couverture is a term used for chocolates rich in cocoa butter.
7. White chocolate is a confection based on sugar and fat (either cocoa butter or vegetable oils) without the cocoa solids.

Different type of chocolate give us a different taste, ie sweet, not so sweet, very the sweet, bitter, half bitter, very the bitter....

Our life is consisting of different type of TASTE as well.
* Sweet --->Bitter ---> Sweet agin!
* Bitter ---> Sweet ---> Bitter agin!
* Bitter ---> Sweet ---> Stil Sweet!
* Bitter ---> Always Bitter!
* Sweet ---> Too sweet and get diabetes!

If there are mixed of chocolates inside the big BOX and there is no description on each chocolate, I wont be able to pick the chocolate that I wan to eat.. same like my life..Im not able to choose my own life BUT goin tru the up and down, sweet and bitter...

And I'm alw wondering : "What's my destiny"..
... You're gonna have to figure that out for yourself .... Again by Mrs Gump (Forest Gump, 1994)

So im stil figure-ing out myself all the while!!!


P/S : FYI ----->>>
Dark chocolate is good for your heart. A small bar of it everyday can help keep your heart and cardiovascular system running well. Two heart health benefits of dark chocolate are:
-Lower Blood Pressure
-Lower Cholesterol
-Stimulates endorphin production, which gives a feeling of pleasure
-Contains serotonin, which acts as an anti-depressant
-Contains theobromine, caffeine and other substances which are stimulant

PPS : Dar, so try to fall in love to the dark cho la..is good for you de!!! REALLY!!!! And it tastes BLOODY GOOD... :P

QUOTES :
>In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
>The good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge.
>Life is like an onion: You peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.
>Love the moment. Flowers grow out of dark moments. Therefore, each moment is vital. It affects the whole. Life is a succession of such moments and to live each, is to succeed.
>Everything has been figured out, except how to live.

Nick Leeson

I was watching CNBC everyday at my office.

There is an adv about 'Looking Back' and I am so interested in this SuperHero name Nick Leeson who collapsed the Barings Bank on 1995.

Why am I so interested in him? Reason is.... I rmbed somehow I heard his name before but I cant recall anythin now. Aging most probably.

Well... Lets talk about him :

1. Nicholas Leeson aka Nick Lesson's life started as a classic rags-to-riches tale.

Clerk ---> XX ---> XX ---> GM @ Barings Bank ---> CEJ for 6.5yrs ---> Speaker & Author - --> CEO of Football Club

He such a strong man and he is goin tru the up n down of the life cycle... from a very low position to GM of one of the biggest bank then been sentenced for 6.5yrs jail then released and relearned and replaned then invited to speak at conference and write book and then appointed as CEO of Football Club. If I were him, I dont know wat will be to me NOW, I dun hav such courage and spirit to survive after all the BAD things.Maybe I should learn from him of cos not the BAD things and is his determination to go on his life.

Moral of the story : Life is unpredictable. We cant foresee our future. So, be strong and determined to wat we hold and wat we wan. Maybe one day... You will be as successful as him (Not the jail la)..so HOLD IT and LIFE GOES ON NO MATTER HOW!!!!

2. Colon Cancer : he diagnosed a colon cancer while he was in prison and now is fully recovered from it.

"I'm of the mindset that cancer must not take you over and control your life. I do believe that the more positive you are, the greater your chance of survival." his advice to others is never to bottle up stress as he himself did: "You need to talk and express yourself as I now do to Leona(his wife). With cancer as with other problems, it's amazing how adaptable human beings are, and you will be able to cope provided you keep a strong frame of mind."

Positive thinking will lead u to a bright side! No matter wat happens, jus think positively.. everything will comes to you automatically..!!! Life is short, diseases are varieties, cures are limited, but our mindset must be strong enuf to fight it!!!!!!!!Nothin can beat you up if you keep a strong frame of mind and a strong passion on it!!!!

3. Nick Leeson's first wife Lisa divorced him while he was in prison. He married an Irish beautician, Leona Tormay

"In prison you really need something to hang on to. That something was my relationship until suddenly I didn't know what was going on between Lisa and me. Eventually I wrote offering a divorce and after two weeks she replied, saying yes."

A relationship is build up by 2 parties. When 1 party has no feelin on you or not passionate enuf , there is no point to keep on it and we hav to look for a point and the point is... Let her/him go. Do not hold someone/something tat doesnt belong to you if you really love her/him. The best way for a relationship is to be generous and considerate. Not to be selfish and stuborn. Becos there are lots more outside there and eventually you can meet your true and the oli one love. Maybe in 2 days, 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years , 20 years or even the day before you are going to another space!!!!! Who Know? And we must believed on it ! (wat v called it , HOPE)

For more details on Nick Lesson or Barings Bank, pls click the below link :

http://www.nickleeson.com/index.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nick_Leeson

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barings_Bank

First Blog I ever done

Well.. if you know me well, you will be SURPRISE when you got this optionslead2futures' link.

Because I am kinda lazy people and I cant really write but I can talk well!!! Is sound contradict and stupid.

Optionslead2futures such a weird name.

I am not a creative person as I am not really a smart people too. Smart people alw hav a good imagination (remembered clearly my Form Six Bio Lao Shi told us and I agreed with her) and definitely I am not group under this category!

Because I am currently studying this so called Options and Futures Tarding Strategies. Maybe some of you hav no idea wats tat..is one of the derivatives. (pls google urself)

Ermm.. and i am wondering...

Options --------->>>> Futures

Maybe it can be linked. How to say ???

In our life, u hav lotsa options (choices)

And you pick and choose one of it

And you go tru it

And finally is your future. whether is good or the other way round!

So... I hope my option that I choosed could bring me to a better future la.

THE END for 1st posting.